Derick H Coaching
I help gay men stop feeling “not enough” and start living with confidence, clarity, and self-trust — so they can show up fully in their lives, relationships, and work.
You’re not broken — you’ve just been protecting yourself.
For many gay men, confidence isn’t the problem — shame is. The people-pleasing. The perfectionism. The constant “not enough” feeling. Together, we gently heal it at the root so you can finally feel safe, grounded, and fully yourself.
Unstuck & Unashamed
A guided experience for gay men ready to stop performing and finally feel at home in themselves.
If you overthink everything, people-please to stay safe, or feel like you’re constantly performing a version of yourself…
You’re not broken.
You adapted.
Like many gay men, you learned early that being fully you wasn’t safe — so you became smaller, safer, easier to like.
And somewhere along the way… you got stuck.
I created Unstuck & Unashamed because I lived this too.
Not quick fixes.
Not mindset hacks.
But a deeper, guided process that helps you unlearn shame at the root and rebuild real self-trust from the inside out.
Through this work, you’ll learn to:
• quiet the overthinking
• stop people-pleasing
• set boundaries with confidence
• trust yourself
• feel grounded, confident, and enough
Not a new version of you.
The real one.
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